Thursday, March 17, 2005

Cheesecake! (32 weeks)

Each year our office goes out for a Christmas lunch at the Cheesecake Factory. This year it kept getting postponed and finally we get to go today. I can’t wait ~ after studying my options (and there are many) I’m going to go with the Chocolate Oreo Mudslide Cheesecake mmmmmmm! Of course I ordered a nice healthy lunch first, 1/2 chicken salad sandwich, side salad, and a bowl of soup. We’ll see if I eat the cheesecake first though - it wouldn’t be the first time I’m afraid. I have a reputation for eating dessert first! All week long the office has had lengthy discussions on what kind of cheesecake to eat. I have an awful time with choices - when they all appeal to me. It’s the reason why I don’t go to places like ColdStone Ice Creamery - I can’t make up my mind b/c I want it all! But I’ve made my choice & I’m sticking to it….just a few more hours before I get to taste it - “Elliot, get ready for a treat!!”
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She’s a believer

Our childbirth instructor is a Christian - and not afraid to talk about it. I noticed at the beginning of class that she was wearing a wordless book bracelet, so I knew she believed, but as class went on she talked about her relationship with the Lord, using examples of how she prayed to Him in labor. And it wasn’t an “Oh God Help Me!” prayer, but a sincere one to the Lord, asking Him to move her baby. Then after class, she passed out a quote from Chuck Swindoll about attitude, another couple began a conversation with her about church. It was meaningful to me because sometimes I feel like many protestants seem to believe in this country & the western way of doing things, especially medical care - more than they believe in natural methods of doing things, when to me, believing in the God who created everything ‘natural’ can go hand and hand with a more natural way of doing things. Anyway, each time we go she impresses me with her obvious conviction for natural childbirth, however I feel she gives a great balance between natural childbirthing and a confidence in the medical establishment. She’s made me feel better about my delivery taking place in a hospital, but still being able to do it “naturally”

Once again the class was great fun. The other couples are very friendly & we all laugh alot. It was our turn to bring snacks & the crackers & cheese & fruit was a hit. I’m thrilled that it’s turning out to be exactly what I’d hoped it would be. We watched some graphic videos of birth & it was good for Charlie to see, it gave him more confidence, instead of dealing with fear of the unkown. He’s going to make a great coach. He did an awesome job in the practice breathing session, keeping me relaxed.

I think one of the biggest keys we learned, and the one we need to make sure to do is to move around during active labor - out of the bed! Even if I end up w/ pitocin & an IV, it’s important to get up & around, changing positions often. I expect it will be one of the best ways to avoid meds.

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Chop Chop Chop

I’m afraid I’ll never be one to have long hair. I think it’s because of how great I feel after a hair cut - I can’t imagine going too long without that high! As my hair grows I tend to feel less attractive & if I see someone with a cute short style there’s a very high chance I’ll be in the salon within a week. So yesterday that’s where I was, even though my original plan was to grow my hair long enough to have a pony tail for when Elliot arrives. But I figure feeling good about how I look is more important than that convenience. It’s now in short layers, similiar to styles I’ve had in the past, the longest layer going about an inch below my ear, and the shortest layer going just beyond the top. I feel like a stylish mama! The feeling I have after walking out of the salon w/ a new do is just a thrill, I may be silly for it, but it’s true!
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